Otw, you just reminded me of a book I read a few months back on M that had some sort of interaction scorecard section where you could "analyze the results" of a situation shortly after it happened, allowing you to monitor your hits and misses. I was too emotional at the time to get into it but now I think I need to approach this from a "scientific" level lol. After all, we are supposed to study this new person parading around in our WAS's body. My DB coach says you have to interact with the person they are right now.
"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."
