Wow
Feelings are really divided on this one.
She sent me one on my birthday, like you guys said just the two words and that was it.
Really I was inclined not to do it, although I have worried about what she would say to my children if I did not, I would hate to be thought of negatively by them, I think a simple happy birthday text would be sufficient to get me out of this with not to much being read into it, this is the only reason I thought I should do it.
I have been quite good at not contacting her for anything other than financials and family matters.


H 50
W 46
T 31
M 24
EA 11.11.15
PA not sure.
Dx3
Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)