Beginning of the End

[TimR]

Honestly I think she is doing it bc it is the last way she can hurt me and how to get a reaction. I have been calm, I am not calling her out on her BS and am just letting things slide off of me and being pleasant while doing it. I think she sees that and for some reason figures if she is not hurting me that way she will find a new way.

Either the above, or it could be she feels guilty but cannot or will not stop herself. So why not erase the thing that brings her the guilt... me.

I notice how she doesn't want money but has said nothing about the car insurance yet. That money must still be good money to her. I would not do it, but can't tell you I have not thought about cancelling it without telling her. Here in PA if you go so long without, the DMV will send you a letter immediately suspending your registration, which means you have to send in your license plate. If she could do that to me she would have but I could not do it to her. That would interfere with her job and the kids if they need to go anywhere.