The start of my happiness 4

[keefa]

Dude, Wait it out, at least sleep on it.
One thing I have released is that this whole process isn't about being hurt once. Its a load of hurts one after the other after the other. We get the biggie, then loads more follow. I had a similar comment. What I did is write down what she said on one card, then wrote a few considered responses to it and spend half hour trying each response on for size. bottom line, I still felt the same. This made me think....the choice how I feel is mine and mine alone. I sat and thought about what the old W reaction would be and what the new W's reaction would be. Then, to be honest I put it aside and just couldn't be bothered. It just became another entry in the reasons to GAL diary.