After new years I committed to NC for a month. We had to have limited because of kids, but I felt a lot better. It was hard.
I think you need to give a certain time length as a goal. Really try. You will be surprised that she will not forget you. When we did have to communicate again. Things were actually better and still are. Not back together or r talk yet.
But I am scared of pushing for that. I may be going for another bout of nc then swing what happens.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15