After new years I committed to NC for a month. We had to have limited because of kids, but I felt a lot better. It was hard.

I think you need to give a certain time length as a goal. Really try. You will be surprised that she will not forget you. When we did have to communicate again. Things were actually better and still are. Not back together or r talk yet.

But I am scared of pushing for that. I may be going for another bout of nc then swing what happens.


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15