In House S (7)

[vise82]

Hey

OTW,

I get what you are saying fake it its the last impression, don't give the resistance to what she wants. let her /us move out and sell the home. It takes two to R and once to want S.

She wants S, I have resisted for 9 months. I can hold her hostage like this any more.

I get it its just in the last couple of days after telling the kids I am on a down turn. I was doing good at faking it. Then of course W likes it she gets what she think she wants.

I need to continue with that path, dealing with the problems I have now while still having hope for the future.

Zephyr

Yes she will need to figure out things on her own, This whole sale of the house she is doing on her own.

Yes I am forgetting me, to love me. good point. I want to crawl under a rock and just forget about everything. I don't know what can I do for myself? I can lock in this house I was looking at and get this house I am living in sold. When I was thinking of living on my own I felt a little better, maybe I should be doing that more.

VAPO,

I have said that that, I have said through out the 9 months of in house S that I don't want this. It wont help me now to do that right now. I need to just think of this as a business transaction. That's what I read months ago.

In a text w sent to a friend of hers, she said that I will change my mind about S once I see how much money I will be getting from FIL. So be it. The money will help me get my own place. With out it, I would be staying in the house till the bitter end.

I think with me now answering the question answers the question of what is wrong?

I am all about doing things on my own but I tried and she is not changing her mind. I need the help so I am taking it. If they want to buy me off so that there grand kids have a nice place to live... I need to take it.