Thanks Bttrfly- I was thinking of a dog who is little, calm and friendly. Those are my three descriptive words and I don't really mind what kind of puppy if it fits that description. Maybe a rescue dog? Still, it's not a plan for just now as I'm still renting.

Ugh, I have a sore throat today and feel a bit under the weather. Luckily I'm not working until Friday, so I'm going to try and recharge before then as I have a few social plans over the weekend.

I heard from my L today. H agreed to my proposal, but there is an aspect of risk that I'm keen to tie up. I'll get back to my L and see if we can agree on a form of wording that covers this.

The letter from his L said he wants to get the financial order agreed as soon as possible, in order that he can apply for the decree absolute. That part makes me feel like not rushing really, but it'll be hanging over me until I respond, so I guess I'll just get it sorted. At least I don't need to watch the postbox for the absolute just now. I've been conscious of doing that for the past week or so. I had this horrible thought that maybe OW proposed on leap year day - ugh - but it doesn't pay to dwell on stuff like that at all - I know that much already.

So, a bit mixed, but good that H agreed the financials. I still won't have funds until the house sale, which is a bit of a pain - but it is what it is I guess. I'll get there.

Hope everyone is having a good day xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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