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TimR #2658569 03/01/16 09:59 AM
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Lifesaver, Cadet! Had me freaked for a min.

I submitted that my display name be 'Ojap' lol...not very creative...but anyone would have to be VERY determined if they were searching.

So...'Ojap's Story' as a title?


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TimR #2658570 03/01/16 10:01 AM
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No hijacking, man. I was so emotional when I first started my thread last week....I didn't even think about 'securing' the story. I tell my girls ALL THE TIME that whatever you put out on the 'net is there FOREVER.

Thanks again, Cadet!!


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Ojap #2658571 03/01/16 10:02 AM
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**Let me be clear....when I stated 'No hijacking, man'....I was trying to communicate..."No worries...you aren't hijacking!"

Sheesh...I'm all over the place today.


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Ojap #2658572 03/01/16 10:05 AM
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So now change your signature and try changing your own title in another post - just go up to the subject and do it.


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Alright...adjusted my signature. Looks like you've got the rest changed/approved. Appreciate it, Cadet.

Not sure I follow on 'try changing your own title in another post'.

Do you mean I need to start a new thread...and when I do...name that...'Ojap's Story #2'??


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Ojap #2658599 03/01/16 11:02 AM
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Aaaaah. Okay...now I see. Had to do a 'reply', not a 'quick reply'


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Originally Posted By: Ojap
Aaaaah. Okay...now I see. Had to do a 'reply', not a 'quick reply'

Yea this sounds like the fish and the fisherman story.

Better for me to teach you how to fish than give you a fish.
That way you will never be hungry.

DB'ing works the same way.


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Cadet #2658607 03/01/16 11:14 AM
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Yes, sensei. smile

Soon...we'll all be DB ninjas. Right now...I'm more like Kung Fu Panda...straight up noodle eating and muddling my way through it.

Wish I could NOT think about my sitch EVERY moment of the day. I try to focus on kids, work, GAL stuff...but jeez it is CONSUMING!

Alright...rant over.


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It's definately consuming, Ojap.

And to think it's all caused by some chemical reactions in our brains. Pretty interesting if you think about it.

But it still s*cks!

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Originally Posted By: Ojap
Wish I could NOT think about my sitch EVERY moment of the day. I try to focus on kids, work, GAL stuff...but jeez it is CONSUMING!


Catching up on your sitch but in the meantime, agreed. It's very draining and I literally need to take mental breaks from it.


"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."
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