I would agree that it's important not to be in contact for little things and would say that contact can (and probably should) become infrequent. For me, it has reduced to once every few weeks or so. A month may go by with no contact for example. But I 'check in' every so often - to wish HNY for example, and the BD email above. Other than that, pretty much no other contact on my part...


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Me 48 H 46
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BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus