Excile, you do realize that she is BULL$HITTING you on an epic scale, don't you. She's been feeding you bull and you just keep taking it? Wake up and smell the rat!!!

Damn it man, you are a man, not a mouse. She says she doses not want to have sex ever again? WTF is she hiding the phone? Jesus, MAry and Joseph, you need to grow a pair and ASAP.

Let me spell it out for you again, SHE IS
B U L L $ H I T T I I N G
you on a legendary scale.

For God's sake, DO NOT MOVE OUT. If she wants freedom, she can move. Show her some balls. She does not want a wimp. You need your self esteem back. You deserve to be loved right and if you have to give up yourself, than it is not love, it's slavery.

And you can bet your bottom dollar that an OM is in the waiting. Your W appears to be a serial cheater with issues stemming from her childhood.