All very good questions Sparks and I wish I had the answers for you. For us, although we have our own emotional fog going on, thinking rationally, we think the WS would as well. Unfortunately, they are incapable of rational thought.

It also stings when they put it all on us. Like we pushed them out the door to have an A. What BS, if they would have been honest with us from the start, everyone here would have moved heaven and earth for their WS. I guess rationally speaking, while we tend to blame ourselves we are the least culpable in our sitches.

Hang in there Sparks. BTW I just noticed you are from PA too. Here is a little optimistic thought for you, At least it is starting to warm up!


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16