I got the prompt to start a new thread, so here it is continued.
I so didn't see getting this far. A second thread? But now I know the W isn't going to suddenly "snap out of it", and the D is going forward at warp speed.
Summary: WAW, OM, married almost 30 years. W lawyered up and filed for D. Knew things were bad - didn't expect that. Pretty much zero communication since moving out. That's when the W "flicked the switch" and turned on the other person. Have to beg to get access to home. Was being harassed by the W's assistant, or using the house as blackmail to do work. Except for yesterday, it's gone dark for the last week and a half.
Today I emailed the W asking to transfer her domain and hosting to her - which I should have done a month and a half ago. But, being a nice guy (ugh) I wanted to make sure that things were working for them. Plus I suppose there was still a bit of "holding on" taking place, although I didn't realize it at the time.
Just having had this domain for 20 something years... But I don't want anything to do with it any longer. It's hers, it's her name (well partly) and that text message yesterday from the assistant was pretty much the straw. If this were the only thing I had to let go of I'd be ecstatic.
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)