Well it's been over a week since the WW and I talked Divorce stuff. She has not brought up anything and every time I try and schedule going to trade in her car from something much cheaper (and in her name) she come up with a last minute excuse. Four times in the last week and within an our a the time to go, she has some excuse (kids, work, not feeling great, etc).
Other odd things, she keeps postponing talking to the kids teachers, talking to the kids AND I still have not been served?!?!?
My guess is she is not 100% sure about her plan A (Him actually moving here) and dragging her feet on letting go of a plan B (Our family).
I've been down sick for the last 2 days BUT I did GAL great this weekend. Out until around 2am Friday and Saturday night. She still never asked anything, but she did check to see if I was home around 4:30am Sunday morning.
She made two jokes about me being sick yesterday first that I should be careful whom I make out with and second, "don't get close to me, that won't be hard" (with a laugh).
Today I have to attend/speak at a family funeral and my kids will be attending the Life celebration afterwards. This morning the WW said she wished she could go. I didn't replay as the kids came running into the room. My family specifically asked that she not attend, it would be a distraction. It was an uncle that my WW knew but was not close with but she was very very close with my Grandpa (his brother).
I'm reading the detaching thread ever morning and working on my 180's and trying to kick the flu.