Hi Jguy , I've read your responses and I feel it's time for me to remove myself from your thread. I wish you all the best and hope things work out for you and more importantly for your son. If I may just say a few things

I would ask you to read the story of Budda teaching a student of how to find " the answer " to life , The student searched all over and tried so hard to understand but he couldn't or wouldn't see what was in front of him

I've followed your thread from the start , you have blamed your birth, your dad , your W , me , other posters , etc because we did not treat you the way you wanted or advise you the way you wanted. PLEASE PLEASE , actually be the independent thinker you claim to be and THINK what's the common denominator here I'm not saying it's all your fault , far from it , your W has acted with very low moral fibre but you are not doing yourse
Anyway. Had a good night, talked to S3 and he is happy. s1 has an eye infection apparently so that's no good.
W started telling me about car again, not for advice just letting me know what's going on with it. The boys started being a handful so I said sounds like the boys need you I'll let you go. Have a good night. She didn't sound happy I was ending the convo.

Pretty sore after volleyball last night. It was good. I got a good sweat on and had a lot of fun. Thought of W once and only because a wedding song came on. Well back to work. Thanks everyone for the support you really helped me through a low time the last few dayslf any favours with the ego you are carrying around. Sometimes we are wrong and it's hard to accept that maturely and I speak from experience, instead of using words like integrity to describe your self why not try the word humble or thoughtful There is an old joke about a guy asked to describe his worse fault and the guy thinks long and hard and answers that he is too generous !!!

Eckhart toole describes ego very well

On the IC vs Shaman debate , my point was IC said you had no empathy for others and Shaman said you gave to much of yourself to others You agreed that both were right

These are my thoughts and if they offend then that was not the intention.

Take care. Rd

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