Actually, these events took a turn on feb 1st which is right here. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2630923&page=10

Then continues through thread number 13 until now

Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home