Beginning of the End

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Let her do her own thing. Plus, the more real their R becomes, the faster it will burn out. OM is simply a band-aid for your W. She's not happy, Tim. It's evident by how she reacts so angrily.

Remember, if she expresses any emotion at all towards you, there are feelings there.

You will know if she feels nothing for you, she will be completely and totally indifferent. No emotion from her at all.

This is good advice for all of us. I suppose I should be glad if I sense hostility from the W. I'm afraid I'm getting total indifference, it's her assistant that seems hostile.

In Tim's case, he's got his MIL airing his laundry in public, which can do nothing for the situation but make it worse. I don't even know what to say about that - even if things were to turn around you've got the MIL to contend with. Forever. It's not like an OM where you can say cut off all communication.

For now Thornton is spot in IMO. I don't like the path, but it must be followed. It will lead somewhere you want to be.