Sandi's Reflections

[TimR]

Sandi, Thank you so much for your posts through out this board. Obviously you offer a unique perspective of being on the other side of the fence.

I would like to ask a huge favor and ask your advise regarding my sitch. I have so many questions that I would like to pick your brain about but the most pressing is whether I should go for custody.

My WW has specifically told me she does not want me in any way. And is recently going public with her A. While the differences in OM and WW certainly indicate it will never work out, I do not know that the M will ever be able to be saved.

I have two stepsons whom I love dearly. She and MIL has poisoned the relationship between me and S16 however relationship between me and S13 is even stronger. He has text me about living with me. He has asked me in person about living with me and he has told other parents he just wants to live with me.

WW will not allow me to spend time with him outside of sports and has started consistently threatening to push me out of his life altogether.

Even though I am a L, I spoke to another L to get her advice. She said I could get significant time with S13 but didn't know about 50/50 since I am not biological.

There is a lot more to my thread that I will not take more space on this thread about. I could just really use your insight.