I was planning on be a pastor when we were dating/engaged, etc. That WAS one of the things she liked about me. But...as we grew/changed it didn't turn out the way she had planned, and our views/beliefs have evolved.
Could you explain what you mean about it not turning out the way she had planned? And would you expound on your beliefs evolving?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
