I agree with you on how affective a 180 can be whilst still living together. They need to miss us and then almost see a different man walk through the door.
My w is now saying she has no libido or will to have sex with anyone ever again! She says I'm her best friend and it's all she can give me. She says that she is heart broken and that's all she knows right now. I'm going to see if she will postpone the divorce to give us both time to let me do a 180 and for her feelings to change. See says I've had plenty of chances but this isn't just about me, we have two young kids to think of too.
Being able to detach is a common rule on here. I don't quite get it. How can you detach unless you are somehow giving up and letting them go?
I'm dreading the day I move out. We are actually talking more and getting along fine. I know that with distance she will see what she is missing but it's hard because if the last time I left and the pain I endured.
I've read that some couples yo yo back to each other when things calm down. I'm not sure it's what I want but my m has been turbulent from the start.
I too don't just want to be friends but what else is there? We would have to be ok for the kids sake.
Are you planning on leaving soon? What are you going to do during your 180?
I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?
