"I'm sure they're out there but the ones with obvious signs of HD within the first couple of dates will probably have other issues that you would run from. No woman is going to advertise that she is HD except on adultfriendfinder.com."

Not all of us have to advertise on that website, so I beg to differ. Lots of us HD women have been faithful to our LD or ND husbands for the same reasons that you guys are faithful to your wives. We love them even if it is not reciprocated like we need it to be. We HOPE that things can change for the better. We try to keep that smile on our faces and not pressure them even though the lack of affection kills us.

Not all HD women are nutcase nymphos or insensitive or have issues that should put them in the looney bin. I think that there are more of us out here than you know. We have been conditioned to be cautious so that we are not labeled sluts, whores, or loose women or worse. Men with our appetites are called studs, ladykillers and the like...

What a difference the terminology makes. For the women, it is derogatory and demeaning and for the men, it is a compliment and a positive thing... Cultural differences that we know to be cautious about so we can live normal lives...

Johanna