Sparks,
yeah - I was actually a bit taken aback. I seriously thought somebody else was texting me.

I don't want to sound mean - but she's not the sharpest knife in the drawer. I'm sort of guessing this was prompted by the W in some way. Perhaps she (the W and assistant) was looking through the texts for something to use against me? Most of the texts are the assistant saying she wants my password, or she's having problems with outlook.

A level-headed person would look at these and see that she's pretty nasty, and the worst I get are defensive gestures. There are a few "ok, you needed this right away - I did it - so what happened?". Like I said, I wish I had kept the VM's, because they dovetail nicely with the texts as far as haranguing me.

Anyway, like I said my best guess is that the W was saying how awful I am - but something would have to prompt the assistant to look at texts. So, probably trying to find something incriminating?

And I was just settling in thinking I wouldn't ever hear from her again.

That "fog" is some nasty azz $#^t, isn't it?

I mean, wouldn't you think if the OM/OW was such hot stuff, they'd leave you alone and get busy?


Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)