Lastly, I had an OMG moment today. I realized that when I have my meltdowns, when I lash out at h, when I over-stir the pot, it is always after a holiday, or more often, after a special occasion ... at least one that used to be special ... and more importantly, when I feel like he doesn't put the same importance on it that I do.
I came down on him after my birthday, New Year's, our anniversary, and the latest ... Valentine's Day.
You might want to be on the look out for the impish leprechaun on the 17th! Maybe try to put a Shamrock duct tape over the mouth?
