I'm not an expert but I'll stop in and tell you that these down times do get shorter and less painful. A year ago, I wouldn't be able to see a picture without it ruining my day. Now it takes much more. Yes I've been in a funk these past few days, but it's my own fault for letting my expectations get too high and getting my hopes up too soon.

I'm not up to date on your whole sitch so I won't try to quite you at this point. I'll try to catch up a little tomorrow and see if I have any advise (I feel my advise is better than my personal actions). For now, grab a snickers. It's a long ride buddy.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home