Just a slight different perspective. I do find it interesting that she would go back and reread your texts. Seems an odd thing to do... I suspect this is a temp check of sorts. It's probably easier for her if she can make you hate her. (and she sure is making it easy!)
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward