Still NC - Trying to move forward

[Ojap]

Not sure if your W is like mine...but I constantly get the 'I'm always the one who isn't measuring up to your expectations', and the whole 'I am always the one 'giving in'

However...I too can remember very few times where she was ever 'in the wrong' and I got a true apology...on anything meaningful.

Makes me suspect that their is some sort of martyr or victim complex. Maybe their self-esteem is so low, that they can't sell-evaluate enough to properly understand their role in the relationship struggles?