Need help. Threading water, must learn to swim.

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Went to see D lawyer today to respond to WW's D complaint. WW hit the ceiling and has been spewing all evening long. She acc y sedan me of lying because we were going to do this without lawyers and then she hired one and expected me to use her L. She has accused me of not communicating with her because I don't tell her everything she wants to know. She told my D3 that Daddy makes pool choices and there will be consequences. She still thinks I never loved her and everything I do is to stress her intentionally. Admittedly, I know that not telling details about activities stresses her but that is a consequence that she needs to deal with. I'm not going to tell her where I go and we hen I'll be home with D3. As far as I'm concerned, she doesn't need to know. Too bad if it bothers her. I dont say anything but it bothers me that she sits D3 in front of the TV while she texts away with the om. It bothers me that she feeds my D3 junky fast food instead of cooking a real meal, It bothers that she has started buying her gifts a couple of times a week, particularly since she has always complained about the clutter in our house and how much she detests her mother trying to buy her love instead of listening to her and spending time with her. In other words, my WW has become what she has always detested, her mother. Mind you, any if the things in and b of themselves and / or in moderation wouldn't bother me. It is the hypocrisy and excess of it, plus I'm ranting a bit. Grrrrr.....