V, I knew you would say something like that. Of course I know these are just words. He's been saying those things for 7 months now. I am not waiting on him to do anything. And when he was telling me what he thinks I should do, I just let him talk and validated him, but also told him some truths about the situation that he fails to see and is avoiding. I am totally in control but it is very hard to get back on your feet with an already messed up financial situation to start with.


"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."