My D Day was December 19. Day before my birthday, 6 days before Christmas, then New Year's, then our 15th Anniversary, then Valentine's Day. It's been horrible.
His EA started out as someone who boosted his ego. A barely adult who works at his gym. Flirting turned sexual, and eventually she went out of her way to out them to me. I don't think he intended it to be anything other than a fling - an ego boost.
However, we separated after I found out, which meant it became a relationship. And he fell in love with her.
A few weeks ago I gave him a date where he had to decide. The date was March 1. At that point he had to decide if he wanted to make it work with me, or if we would be permanently ending it. He told me then he chose me, and it would be over by March 1.
He is carrying through, but it isn't going to be easy for him. She won't go easily, that I know, and I know he is going to have a hard time letting her go.
Does anyone have any resources for getting over the AP after breakup?
