Now, the real work begins..Part II

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TimR,

Unfortunately our sons spring break weeks don't match up this year (one in HS and one in MS). So, he asked me one time what we will do when we split up the time - i.e. if one of us takes one of the boys away, what happens with the other one? My response was: let's divide up the time, propose our plans and then go from there. It is very complicated because there are 3 weeks of vacation between the 2 boys and NONE of the time overlaps. I divided the time 50/50 and gave each of us 2 weekends with both boys (thinking he'd want to spend time with both of them and fly the other one home). When he emailed me today, I thought he was proposing what he wanted to do on his weekend with the boys. I thought I was doing a great thing by finding a solution. All he had to do was arrange transportation. Unfortunately, he thought I didn't address it but it is so complicated we really couldn't until we had plans better mapped out. But, he is also very used to me accommodating all of his plans. This is unusual that I said I wouldn't change my plans or that I put my plans before the kids....