I got an email from the H saying that on one of the Spring Break weekends he has both children, he is going to take one of the boys skiing for a long weekend and leave the other one with me because he has school on that Monday. Unfortunately, that doesn’t work for me because I am headed out of town for a Girl’s weekend. In the past, I would change plans or drop anything for my kids, so I am assuming H expects me to do this again.
I could’ve sent an email back saying “sorry I will be out of town, please figure it out”. However, I don’t want my S15 to feel like he is a burden, etc. So, I called his best friend’s mother and she is willing to take him for the weekend which S15 will be thrilled with.
Do you think this email sounds okay to send back:
H, Your plans with S12 sound fine. Unfortunately, I have plans to go out of town that weekend. I have spoken to S15 and the Smith family and they would like to have S15 for that weekend. Please arrange travel for him to get to and from their home.
Thanks
Thoughts? I want to send it back within the hour because he will be picking up kids soon....
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16