Not sure where to stand

[Sparkls]

Just had an appointment with my IC and he boiled it down pretty simply and something that really sat with me. At the end of the day, I have to wait and see if H is going to have a change of heart. If he doesn't, the relationship is over. If he does, we can see if it moves forward. How long I wait to see if that happens is up to me. Very little I do is likely to change that.

I guess I'm struggling with treating him like a WH vs a walk-away. But, again as my IC point out, I'm trying to make sense of an ink blot in front of me. I really have no clue whats going on with him. Eventually something will change. He can tell his friends that "we won't ever work" but the reality is he hasn't gotten his stuff, he hasn't changed his fb status, he hasn't actually told *me* that. Its all just words.

But I'm having more and more moments where I don't know why I'm fighting. He's off having fun, sharing stupid facebook posts and I'm cleaning our home, paying our bills. WTF am I even doing anymore.
The one thing I always wanted out of a relationship was a partner, someone who would fight for me. I have neither of those right now. And I'm wondering if I ever even had those with him. I feel like I'm just fighting at this point because I don't want to let go. Is that really a good enough reason?

How does one kick him out of this wayward fog? I can't think of anything else to do.