I had followed your sitch over in Newcomers. I decided to jump over here myself just this past weekend, as I am now fully convinced of H's MLC and highly suspicious of mid-life EA/PA. I have no 'concrete proof, but I do have a case of missing condoms and missing Cialis. Kind of a smoking gun, don't you think?
I have no wise words as I am walking the path along with you. My H is all over the place too. I like to say his mood swings are giving me whiplash. Hang in there.
PS. I ditto Nel--I love that quote :>
Me 47 H 49 S18 S15 M 21 BD #1 11/09/15 ILYBNILY I believe we are Piecing 1/2/16 Suspect EA/PA? 2/28/16 BD #2 "He tried, but needs passion." 2/28/16 Confirm PA 3/11/16, he's leaving in June H leaves 5/7/16