well.....I've been away from here for awhile. I have had several D4 exchanges with WXW. She has on several occasions tried to be overly friendly and flirty in person and over text message. My response each and every time has been very business like. Not cold but not friendly either.
This last weekend I finally closed on my home equity line of credit to pay off her half of the equity and some bills medical bills in her name. She asked if we could meet at starbucks to go over the bills. I told her I wasn't sure what my schedule was going to look like on Friday. Saturday morning I sent her message and said
"Just send me the bills. I'll figure it out and then we can square up"
She said " So are you saying we are not going to sit down and go over it??"
I said " I don't understand why we need to sit down to go over it."
She said "whatever"

The rest of the weekend her messages were very sharp. She even asked me to drive 20 minutes to her city to bring her money. That was funny. No way was I going to drive to her to bring her money. Hard enough handing over that much money to her.

I feel she was just trying to get a chance to spend time with me. I guess I'm not interested in spending time with her until she comes with an apology for the way she has treated me or at least shows some remorse. I don't know. Maybe I'm being too tough. Maybe there isn't a chance for her to show remorse if I won't spend time with her......I don't know......she has plenty of opportunities to show remorse or apologize when swapping D4 or in text messaging through out the day.

I'm not going to just accept or be manipulated by her flirting.


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place