I was planning on be a pastor when we were dating/engaged, etc. That WAS one of the things she liked about me. But...as we grew/changed it didn't turn out the way she had planned, and our views/beliefs have evolved.
Your comment about expectations are spot on. Both the W and I would often say that we could never meet one another's expectations. MC said she was impressed w/ both our progress and that we both had self-esteem issues where we 'would never be good enough' for one another. And that fully understanding that was important to the healing process, etc.
Also...during MC and our discussion about Cell Phone and my anxiety, she was very clear to say, "I do not love anyone else, and I don't have any desire whatsover to love anyone again. It hurts too much."
Ok...I think that's it. Lol
Ojap M 13 T 15 D 11 D 11 D 9 BD #1: ILYBNILWY 09/2015 BD #2: W asks for S 12/2015 ---------- Currently: Limbo
