Oh, trust me. I have a lawyer. After H left yesterday, I finished up my financial declaration to prove that the amount we had agreed on was warranted. It will go in today. He wasn't being mean or even serious about the not spending money. He just is feeling stuck. My point is, I agree, he needs to make the connection between his plight and his actions on his own. I will still love him a d be here for him to talk with, but his financ ial woes and depression are not really due to me. Hopefully my L or the .mediator will help him see.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16