Since the amount of time we spent together at the beginning of the month and how i felt things seemed a little different I tried to back off for a while to see what panned out. NOt much really. I came across a few things with her being out and then taking kids places that seemed really strange why they would go there all of the sudden that used to send me for a loop. But these times it wasnt as bad.
A couple instances have popped up that I have not said a word about or will.
W has begun asking for the funds from a small retirement account i had. when we agreed to her getting half of it I also had to get her to agree on a payment schedule for some things we agreed to keep and she never answered me so I have been applying the funds towards it monthly. She understood and asked that she get the remainder and will pay me monthly. This lead me to believe money is becoming an issue. Along those lines she has for the first time taken on more teaching. Falls right into the line of finances. I have not asked nor will I, but after this full year passes it will come up as her income affects what i pay her in support.
Another interesting instance was of course from dreaded facebook. We are not friends on facebook, but have mutual. There is a guy I know who is just a mess, always!. He made some post late on evening and my W commented on it. He immediately acted like he fell in love with her. He knows me and her and our relationship. Of course the next morning he immediately removed everything, but it made me wonder if W did this for a reaction out of me as he tagged me in some post earlier in the day trying to get me to come hang out with him. Either way I am not concerned about this being any kind of threat as she is way out of his league and she def would not be into him. All that said i understand she is not the same person anymore but i would bet the house on this one!
other than those things not a whole lot between us. We had to work on some days with kids changes as she had some commitments for teaching then I have to be out of town next week. We worked well on sorting that out.
When she dropped kids the other morning she was running late and for some reason I guess i was hoping for more interaction so I was a little down about that. I had to take D7 to school that day as we had to spend extra time together during the week working on a project for school. It was funny I had to get W to do one thing for it and she did it wrong. I didnt mention it. So later W texts me asking if the project got to school ok. I responded back and forth with her a bit about it all and she asked D to call when she got home. now all of this could have just waited until D got home, but i will take the interaction. D7 also had a bday party W told me about the following day. She actually offered to get the present and bring it by the next day. I gladly accepted the help. She showed up the next day a little later than normal and i could tell she had been out the night before and was a little hungover. She smirked about it. With yesterday being her normal day to get the kids and she wasnt going to be she asked about maybe stopping by to see them. I told her just let me know. We were going out to enjoy some nice weather and she hadnt said anything so I let her know where we would be if she wanted to see them. She quickly responded asking if we all could eat lunch together and we did. As we were wrapping things up her and i talked about her stuff she had going on and i acted interested and excited for her and she seemed open to me.
We have had a few exchanges like this lately. I cant put my finger on anything but just everything is always pleasant.
So i have been contemplating a few things and before I even mention them here i am having a coaching session thursday to get coach's take on everything before i bring anything up to anyone, even coach.
I know this post was all about W but I break so long between my own posts now that I will start splitting them up.
I will be back later to post about MY life and what I have been up to.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
