No it's all true. I and only I have to power to make good decisions. It's time for me to step up too the plate! I bought another book today and an audio book. Today is my fresh start to do the right thing for myself. I will keep posting. I love this site. I'm giving it up to God and let him lead for a change.
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since