CeMar, Yeah, I know-- as a rule the HD men here say they don't cheat. But I think that the people here, as a group, might not be representative of our genders in all ways. First thing, the HD men who are here, are here cause they are struggling with being HD and sex starved-- AND are willing to communicate and vent about it. This is different from the guys who are out getting laid.... so I think I'm asking more for what y'all have observed on average and over time, in men who you know well enough to know what really goes on.
Does that make any sense?
And, I know how miserable your sitch is making you. I lived it for so long. My life is still sort of a train wreck, but somehow it's easier to be sex starved without a naken man in the bed. Sometimes lately is scares me to realize how mad I was, how much I loathed being stuck in my marriage. Then, I get all misty about being scared to be on my own. Then I just get confused. But as much as I'm struggling, it is frighteningly apparent to me that I do not ever, ever want to even consider getting stuck in that same place again.
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time, and annoys the pig.
