"We ski together, we hang out once every week or two, we share all our relationship struggles with each other"

This is an emotional affair, especially sharing your relationship troubles with each other.

H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21
M:12 BD:1/15
In-house Separation 2/15
DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15
Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16
Reconciliation 1/17
Obviously still struggling