Previous to EA our M was good, since having kids MIL and FIL have been v intrusive (IMO), and although W acknowledges this she will not say or do anythign about it. Currently I am in the MH, W in same town, I am not funding anything for her. Both of us getting on as well as ever, she has noticed positive changes in me, and is saying what a good father I now am, but W has also stated several times in MC she does not want to R. I've been pouring all my effort into saving this and basically don't know what to do now. Mentally I cannot continue to keep putting in what I am atm. I want to detach in a positive way without jeopardising any small chance of an R.
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted
