Yeah, most of the HD spouses here do claim to be faithful, but there are instances of the LD spouse haveing an A, too. There are so many vaiables regarding folk's sexuality, unless there is a chastity belt or jock strap, (and that's a bit kinky, lol) no one can be guarenteed anything in the sex department.
Lots of us have all of this pain and guilt regarding these failed marriages that never really have been a true marriage. We try and keep trying, staying together for the kids, the security, what ever reason floats your boat. In the end, we sacrifice a large part of ourselves to the M with no compensation for losing our souls. I can't do it anymore and I'm not selling my soul to the devil in return. I want myself back, peace of mind, fulfillment and happinerss. I may never find what I seek, but I have a chance by D'ing.
