Hi folks, been lurking and reading for a week and finally needing to reach out for advice and support.
Me 35, Her 34, D7, S5, T18, M10 Wife had EA Oct 12, after discovery things improved for a couple of years, then slowly soured. I felt I couldn't trust her and she was being secretive and giving all signs of being in an A. ILLBINILWY Jan 15, this knocked me for six, no idea what to do or where to turn, didn't help I'd been withdrawing and not getting involved as much as I should have. W family v enmeshed/controlling and she had v little time for me. BD Aug 16, again shellshocked but with hindsight I should have seen it coming. W moved out with kids Sep 15. Currently I am getting IC, and we are both in MC, but W says she does not want to R. Getting scared of D and effect on D&S. I know I need to get less emotionally involved and try and move on. Looking for advice on how to do this the DB way - would be disappointed to muck things up even though current outlook is bleak.
