Well I believe it's over for good with us. After him cheating on me and me leaving in Oct it's been hell. You has a girlfriend that he was cheating on her with me. Even tho I love him and know I've made a ton of mistakes. He basically hates me now and won't speak to me because I took his gf everything. I'm upset with myself for making so many mistakes. He is definitely not worth degrading my self respect and self worth for. I have to be strong and move on and leave him alone. It so not healthy. Please wish me luck as I try to let go and move on. I have no choice in the matter.


T-20 yrs M- 7yrs
Me-46 XH- 44
S15, S21
1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07
1yr separation, my decision-2012
His PA started Aug 2016
I moved out Sept/16
He's been with OW ever since