Just here to process what is going through my mind this morning. Last week, XF broke contact with OM, quit her job, eliminated anybody who has anything to do with OM, went for std testing, talked about where she went wrong and finally owned her part of where we are. All that was her idea.

To me, that all looked like good showings of action in the right direction. Got my hopes up. I don't know how I couldn't when seeing all that action...


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home