Good to see you still around. Sorry to hear about the stbx but I am in the same process.
It's not just about the sex, but the entire lack of touch, caring, emotion, intimacy, connection, the whole package. You try so hard to have your mate love you and be in love with you. If love is not a priority in the R, you suffer and die each day. Life is for living, and I am taking a chance to find a man that will cherish me and I can cherish him.
