I feel I was just trying to make myself heard vapo. I don't think it had anything to do with shaking her up because obviously that doesn't work. I feel like I have no voice, kept too much bottled up while trying to keep the path home as smooth as possible and just needed to get it out. I defiantly wish I would have done it either here or some other way of venting but in the moment it didn't happen that way...


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home