Kiwi, Mel and Trumpet, thank you for support and input!
Posting from phone so will have to answer later.

Very angry and upset tonight. Just lots of very confused feelings. Not sure if I'm being manipulated or what.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17