I'll tell you another story about the first time W left lol.
When W left me 18 months ago we had a chihuahua. This dog did not get along with ANY other dogs. We always wanted to get a boxer but couldn't because of the chihuahua.
W left and then 3 weeks later is posting pictures of her new boxer on facebook. I felt exactly you do now. There was no way we could reconcile now. We would have to get rid of one of the dogs. I was panicking! This meant it would be impossible to reconcile and that W was sending me a message, it's over.
Needless to say, she started missing me and we got back together. Now I have the boxer and my parents have the chihuahua.
