Still NC - Who is Thornton?

[Sparkls]

Agreed Tim. I think about how H is sabatoging because he has this misheld belief that complacency is the worst thing that can happen to you. He sat there telling me that all the things we planned (family, kids, a home etc), he felt like he "should" want those things. And his reaction is anytime he "should" do something, his knee jerk reaction is to do the opposite. If he doesn't figure out that should doesn't mean bad, he's going to end up with nothing that he really wants (he really wants kids but you have to settle down to get there first!)

We're all flawed. As V would say, we all have our monkeys. i just wish H would let me help him wrangle his. :-/