thanks for your posting. I never mentioned the word MLC to my husband. He thinks it is all about our marriage. I truly don't know anymore.
And he is right. We always seemed to have issues that we never knew how to address. Communication was always a big problem. It's not the case that we had a great marriage and something took over and he left. This had been building up and up and it reached a point where logistically it was really easy for him to leave.